For whatever reason, I have had a hard time figuring out how to approach/complete this post, but someone recently shared a video with me that kind of summed things up.
A couple weeks ago Brad and I had the opportunity to attend Birth Mother Panel for FSA - Families Supporting Adoption. This organization is managed locally. They host a lot of meetings that help with adoption awareness and support. It truly is a wonderful organization with the most pure efforts and intentions. I really appreciate those that work so hard to make it available to couples like us. They also offer a lot of opportunities for people to get involved and help out.
Anyway, Brad and I were SO impressed with our experience at the Birth Mother Panel. There were four birth mothers there; one that had placed almost seven years ago to another that had only placed two months ago! It was so helpful to have the variety of timelines. It was also interesting to hear the many similarities, but also the many differences between each story. Hearing their personal stories and their personal journeys made it so much more real. Before this meeting Brad and I thought we had an appreciation for the Birth Mothers' role in the adoption process. But now, we have an even GREATER appreciation AND respect for these women.
I think one thing Brad and I have worried about in the past was our ability to develop a comfortable relationship with a potential birth mother. Our experience at this meeting helped to put us at ease as we were able to sense a small connection and feeling of comfort as we listened to each of their stories. These women are truly amazing and inspiring. They have worked hard to make the very best of their lives and are changing others lives as they share their amazing stories.
This video link below is one of the most inspiring videos of a birth mother I have ever watched. She is such and amazing, strong individual. I hope this video is helpful to anyone seeking guidance, understanding, or simply gaining more knowledge on the subject.
A Birth Mother's Story
These stories are also, so motivating and inspirational:
It's About Love
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